My gosh Matilda, I've been keeping up with your post and the stuff I've read the past couple days have blown me away. I didn't write anything because I did not know what to say. When I read that your H was still involved with someone after assuring you that he wasn't etc. made me realize that if your H can do this mine can too. I too feel that my H and I are on the road to recovery but at any moment I know he can just tell me he's done for good this time and wants out. I live with that insecurity now. My H's thing was an EA, but he was totally out of love with me (or so he says) so that made him vulnerable to another woman. He seems to finally have his head out of his A$$ and I hope yours does too, for good this time! Good luck to you and please keep us posted. I don't think I'm the only one shocked by your updates the past couple days. Lisa
