I am pissed for you and have both sympathy and empathy for your sitch. We want them back so badly, mostly because as human beings we need them back and quickly. We forgive quickly partly to help satisfy our own needs. What to so? "Punish" them and push them away (potentially to OP) or take them back and risk the same pain twice or more? That is a tough one that I am not able to answer for anyone, especially myself. If you figure out a way to "punish" them but also satisfy your needs please post. I can't be the only one who goes from standing on my head for my W to eanting to stand on hers.
