"It's a small world after all" takes on a new twist. . .
Mattie, do you guys always go to this place at this time of year every year?
During the affair could your H have mentioned this?
Remember how you went to her door and confronted her?
IF she had your vacation info (hey, could she have gotten your Hs vacation itinerary from some source at work???) then I could see how she would try to 'get back at you'.
20 20 hindsight would have you walking up and standing next to her with a lovely smile on your face.
Question: Are you going to let this incident eat at you or are you gonna let it go?????
If you decide that the 'ghost from the past' is doing this deliberately then you can make plan changes to keep her from these ploys.
If you decide to confront her, she'll think your crazy.
If you decide to blame it on your H where will that put your R?
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I used to dwell on when I would wind up face to face with the 'woman in the can'. I think I've seen her in her car twice. Both times I was w Sage and he wasn't looking as she drove by us.
I will be in the same room w her when our sons graduate in June. She is now safe from me. I finally was able to give up on a claim for retaliation/revenge.
That's part of putting it in the past.
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Matilda, please don't think I'm telling you what to do. Each situation is different. Part of me so wanted to do exactly the things you have done. These things would not have drawn Sage to me though so I had to let them go.
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Other than her showing up in the gift shop, how was the rest of your vacation. I'd love to hear about it!!!
