MATILDA... HOPE YOU HAVE A SAFE AND HAPPY VACATION!!!! I'll be thinking about you!! Maybe this will be really good for both you and your H. Just relax,enjoy and take it a day at a time. Sometimes when you are "away" from the daily routine things look different and sometimes you can put things in a whole new perspective. Let us know how things go. Will be waiting to hear about your adventures [Wink] !! Pat