Profroglady- how long of an affair did your H have? Boy, alot on this thread rings true for us. I took advantage of my husbands love,and did not think I needed to do the "little" things for him-heck I was barely doing the big things. He swears through the whole affair he never stopped loving me, and even told the Bimbo that when she'd ask. Sorry-we've been together forever-since grade school-she can't begin to compete with that, or with the Real me which is wht he's seeing now. It's hard and sometimes you want to go back into old bad habits..but you have to rememeber....what looks attractive to them? Well I know and I'm showing him. Now if I can just rid myself of this anxiety disorder I'd be ok. I'm working on it..Rachael M.
