Sure sounds like things are getting better and better for you and your H!! I was so happy to read that there has been a lot of ACTION [Big Grin] going on!! You have really "been there" for your H and you have handled things so well. I know there were times when you felt helpless and felt things were hopeless but you "hung in there"!! You refused to give up!! Your H is a VERY LUCKY MAN!! Things have been really wild around here for several weeks. My H's job has changed for a while and he has been working nights and will work nights for awhile longer. It has been a "test" for me. One of the problems I was having "pre-A" was the long hours and not enough time spent with me. I am proud of me [Smile] ..I have shown him that I have a whole new attitude and I show him that I cherish every moment we do have together and I make the most of them!! He tells me and shows me how much he appreciates it. Before I bitched and complained about the hours and I was always ticked off when I cooked a great meal and had it ruined because he didn't call and tell me he was going to be late. Now I just "go with the flow"..I prepare things that I can keep warm or heat up. But he also calls me now! It's all "give and take"..we both share the responsibility for the condition of our R "pre-A" and it was up to both of us to put things right. Of course I feel he had the most "work" to do because he royally screwed up when he decided to betray our vows!! I am so happy for you that things are going so well. Keep me updated.
PAT