Matilda, I think all of what you said makes sense. I agree that when you act lovong the feelings follow. My H is acting lovingly and I do believe he is starting to come around to me. He told me in the thick of our falling out when he spoke of there being no hope for us that he wanted to be in love. I took that to mean just not with me. Well, that was 3 months ago and now I truly believe there is a chance for us. Good luck to you. Lisa [Razz]

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