quote:I think you're right in that your love for your W may never reach its full potential, but that doesn't mean it won't be a very strong, unwavering love.
quote:But, unfortunately, I think my H is one of those that thinks if he's not feeling those "tingly" feelings, he must not love me.
I can sorta relate to what you mean by the "tingly" feeling you speak of concerning your H. Although your H's and my situations are different, I once had that feeling when being around my W. That feeling is gone, and Im sure that b/c of the guilt your H carries it might be the same for him also. Yes, like you said that doesnt mean that we cant still have a strong M, but once you've experienced that feeling and know what it's like, it's so hard to settle for anything less. Know what I mean?
I understand this is a little opposite of what Tbone just posted above, but not everyone can approach their situation from his perspective. I cant and dont want to look at my M like a business patnership. I want(ed) to love my W to my fullest potential. I want(ed) a good, fulfilling M. I am by no means knocking your views Tbone, for everyone's is unique and different.
Keep giving him time as your doing, and as Im doing for myself and hopefully that "tingly" feeling will come back around. I miss it. I miss that feeling dearly.
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