I know the feeling so well, my ex-wife became to woman I always wanted and I became the man she did after we D'd. Now we are dating and trying to piece this mess back together, it's not a cake walk by any means of the word. But we are trying each and evveryday. Just last night as we sat on the porch of our home (she has an apt.) she said something that hit me deep. That in her next relationship or this one if it makes, that she feels she should recieve attention and affection and not have to give it to get it... I said that seem to me to be selfish, and that she shouldnt exspect to get any more from and R than she was willing to give. She comment was well that what its going to be like for me from now on, I gave all for 20 yrs now its my turn. Hmmmmm... She up and left in a fit and I took a ride. She called this morning and appologized. In all this I suggest to you to keep your head high, make the best of what you have at the moment, let GOD work his magic on her. I feel in time with you and my sitch. that things will come around from you being a better loving, caring and apprecitive man. I think things will just have to grow and mature on their own so to speak. Let it ride and enjoy each good moment you can, let the bad roll off your back and keep your focus on your hopes and dreams.... DO NOT LET YOU HARD WORK FAIL!!!!
