Thanks for your advice. W made her Dr. appointment today. Kind of ironic. I would like it to help, but I appreciate that such a simple effort is at least being made.
Make myself attractive. I'm 47, 6'1" and 175 pounds. I still have all my hair and very little is grey. Women notice me. Every business trip I take I'm approached. No. I don't accept. I have always treated it as a compliment and thanked them before explaing that I'm happily married. I'm not sure I can carry off the happily since the affairs were exposed. It'd be pretty artifical.
I'm a quite computer systems analyst/designer, so I'm the thinking type. Too serious. Rarely laugh. All of this is made greater when I'm under stress and the W has had me stressed with sexual frustration for five years.
