I don't know how old your W is but it could be the low sex drive is hormonal. She really does need to see a doctor and have things checked out. It does look like she realizes she has a problem but she is choosing to ignor it. I wish I could offer you some advice but I just don't know what to tell you. I can tell you are frustrated and don't know what to do. You have to decided just how much you can take. Everyone has a "breaking point". You have to decide how long you can "live" like you are. I know nagging and pushing your W to do something will only make things worse and push her farther in then opposite direction. If you really and truly love her and want this M to survive then you have to continue C (if you feel it is helping) and just show her everyday in everyway that you do love her,care about her and that you want to have a loving happy R with her. I hope there is someone on this board that can help you. I can and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!! pfroglady
