Not quite sure if I understand. Were you and your wife saying you are a little nutso too? I have come to believe that every person on the planet struggles hard to get thrugh this life. Some people, who feel secure in themselves, see it as matter of fact, those of us who are insecure are stunned. I loved that movie but remind myself that now that better meds are available even John Nash takes them (I think I read that somewhere).
I'm feeling much better having spoken to my Dr. who treats me like a peer that she is consulting (the way any doc should treat an adult patient!) Also my friend, since I was 4yo (and who is one of several people who I share a near telepathy when it comes to each other's moods) called. We only said hi because I was expecting a call but it was enough to remind me of myself and center me. The doc and I agreed to try an every other day prozac and a couple's session.
You'd be surprised, I bet, at how much you helped. Thanks Andy