I have made a commitment to love him as long as we both shall live and if that means he wants out at some point, I will do everything I can to be loving and keep him, but I'm not going to stand in his way. I would want to lovingly allow a divorce if he decided that is what he really wanted and I would leave if he wanted to be with another woman because it would be giving too much of my self away to try to live with him through that.