Kaw: Sometimes i think the same as you... That maybe my happy moments, my happy situation will hurt some of my friends here... but you know what...?... i dont want to give hopes knowing that maybe their story will not end with their h or W... but our changes... our 180 are not only relate to our H... there is a great growth process inside of all that we need to share...!!... and from happiness there is a lot we can learn too, although our situation is not as stable as yours...!!... So i will ask you continue your post... continue psoting your aproach, your progress... In muchell weiner books there is a chapter dedicate to that: maintaining the progress... the changes... the wil goals... So, i think is helpfull for everybody to know about that...!!