KAw, until I just read your part about controlling, I never thought I was like that, but I see that I always was trying to fix my h, or tell him what he should or should not do, he started smoking about 2 years ago, now do I like that, no, but I don't nag at him, he knows the harm it does. He also was on a weight loss program last year, where you take a dozen diff pills, but went to DR for high blood pressure, Dt suggested he not use this stuff, well alst week he started on it again. Only thing I said was I was concerned since Dr said not to, and the bp medicine with it. I did not nag, but in the past I would have kept on him. It is hard to change something you are not even aware you are doing. I hope the best for your wife and her medical issues. Have a great weekend Sue
