Hi Rach, In this thread, I mentioned how last month my W withdrew. That when we attended a wedding ceremony at the church, how she pulled away from me both physically & emotionally (as well as the days before & after that)... it seems they all go thru this phase and of coarse each go thru it at their own pace. It is all part of the healing process and all we can do is ... give them space to heal ... make it safe for them to heal when they are with us ... let Adrian heal and prove to him that the butterfly called Rachael will patiently wait for him to heal.
Steph posted:
Quote: Just feel like shaking her sometimes and saying: RELAX, SNAP OUT OF IT WILL YA! Not sure if that would help though...
Well Steph, I think you already know the answer to that one...
