Quote: Here's a tip for losing weight - first pick up a gastro problem, followed by mild 'flu, and then a little later, a viral infection. Worked for me!
LOL!!!!
Well, LNL, I know I'm not in a good place right now, but really my H is still a worthy guy. It's just his darned depression (okay, and maybe he has a little bit of the "stuck thinking" like my S14 with the OCD?). He's a wonderful husband and father in many ways, I just have to accept that he has a major blindspot where my health issues are concerned, and it's a cheeseless tunel to expect he will ever change in that regard, as he's always been this way.
The thing about it is, I'm not even a whiny person!!! It's not like I'm Camille or something!!! I'm much more of a "tough it out and don't complain" type, so it's a little disorienting to be treated as if I'm a wimpy complainer.
As for the trip thing - it's not that I suspect anything is going on right now - I'm sure nothing is. It's just the echoes of that bad time before.
But I think right now, part of the problem is me too - I seem to be focused on H's bad behaviors too much. I think I need to start journaling 3 good things a day, like Sage used to.
Gee, I hope you are feeling better now, LNL. What a bummer to get sick on your vacation!
