Your trip sounds like a whirlwind of activity, made me tired just reading about it. Then I thought, wait - I just had that kind of a trip last week!

Ok, now I'm done laughing about your H's morning, it's too bad he can't see the humor too. Maybe after he simmers down he'll laugh about it later. Creeped out? I used that term last week, and now here you are using it.
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But there's that sickening undercurrent of "gee, this wasn't hard, why can't you do it this way?"

Your thoughts, not his. But take note, is it lots different? is he showing you how he would prefer it to be done? and if you asked him would he pitch in and help with those chores?
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I'd been nagging her for a week!

Nagging never works. What's the consequences of D15 not cleaning her room when you ask?

Job search? for you?

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