Wow, Ellie. I understand the sickening feeling that you're talking about. You're wise to back out of the situation when your H gets wound up like that--I've learned that lesson as well. What is your plan for tonight? Do you guys talk about these situations or do you just let them go?
In a weird way, it is comforting to see that even couples who have successfully rebuilt their M's still have these moments. I guess that's just real life.