You're right, Joe, how can I not be happy in a beautiful place like San Diego???
I do think I'm right, however, about the likelihood of H going off the deep end when he's 50. I will definitely try to be all I can be, but I think the risk factors for him are internal, not external. So...the conundrum is...how do you "MLC-proof" a spouse, or at least, how do you steer them towards a Corvette as a manifestation of it???
