Kaw, been reading your posts, you sound like there is much to be hopeful for, I wish my h was at the point that he could just hold me, but he can't at this point, and what do I do if he never does, or how long do we keep trying?? There are good signs from just 5 mos. ago, so patience is the key. Trust is also a hugh issue, from what i am reading on this b.We have to rebuild all that, and it takes time. Will check in later Sue