Kaw-what your wife did threw you off guard. Is this what they do AFTER they are distant and cold and all the other crap we put up with for months on end with them giving us just enough hope to make us hang on? DO they do these 180's that I hear people talking about and can't beleive them because they have waited so long for them that it does not seem real or that it will last? What snaps them into this? Is this ususally the beginning to the end of our nightmares? I'm waiting for some of these 180's from my H, and I know it will seem unreal to me and I will wonder if it's just guilt becasue it will be so out of character. Now that I have heard about it so much I will know its for real and I will be very HAPPY when he starts! Rachael
