Hi Racheal,
I wish I had some way of helping you out on this one, but my W is just the opposite. Our anniversary is also in Nov. and she has mentioned she has been thinking we should do something special. Actually, she says that every year, but $$$ always gets tight at that time of year and we always forgo going anywhere. Not this year! I will find a way to make it happen this year. My W is even making plans for places to go next summer.

Rach, perhaps getting some brochures from a travel agency and leaving them out on a table might be a way of getting him to say something without you actually initiating the discussion. Just a thought...

'til later,
KAW