Kaw-I think it's positive also. If she wanted running money she would open up her own savings account in her name. SOunds like she was in her own way reassuring you that she's not going anyplace. Your reading too much into it-but I would too if it were me. We can always see things clearer when its somebody else's problem!! I have a dilemna. My H. is so fired up about this motorcycle trip he's taking in Colorado the 29th of this month. He'll be gone for 9 days. I'm really going to miss him! The thing is I have planned a vacation for US for our anniversary the 1st week in November. I had talked to him about it before and he was pretty quiet about it. I've always planned the vacations. We even talked about going somewhere else but decided to go back to Naples, FL where we love it and know where everything is. Here's the thing. He is not excited about it at all-or if he is he has not said anything to me about it. I wish he seemed a little more enthused about going away together-It makes me feel like he really does not want to go that he's just doing it out of "duty" I have not said anything to him about my feelings-thought I'd save it for C tomorrow night. I thought I'd see what you have to say about this-I mean that was ohe of his BIGGEST complaints before I found out about the A was that I would not go places with him. SO why the silent treatment about this?? Rachael M.
