Hi all, What extremes the past two weekends have been! First weekend at a wedding dealing with such pain & fear of my W distancing big time from me to this past weekend (into yesterday), having to go to an out of town wake and funeral and my W's needing to keep close to me and being so loving. I'm still trying to absorb all this ...
Interesting development happen when we came home last night and were relaxing on the bed. My W asked abruptly if I still had the seperate savings account w/o her. (This is been a sore point with her since she came back in Feb.) Actually, all our finances are still seperate since May, and neither of us have really pushed to make them joint again. Apprehensive as to where she was going with this subject, I told her yes and that is where the funds for our last trip came from. She then annouced that went she goes back to work in Sept. (works in the school kitchen), she wants to put money aside from her paycheck each week and put it in my account so she doesn't have access to it until next summer, so she will have some spending money then.
From my original post:
quote: Saturday [May 18th], W demands I give her the money from my savings for her apt or on Monday she will contact L for the big D! Turned into big arguement after which she stormed out of house
The money was OUR savings and I had transfered it in a seperate account to protect it from her wanting to spend it to get her apartment. My stance was it was OUR saving and should be used for US! (We ended up using it for OUR vacation in July.) This had brought her to as close to wanting a D than anyother time. Now she is asking me to take her money and keep it from her until next summer.
This is not sitting right with me. I could use some advise about this....
