Thank you Always for taking the time to post all that you did. I was thinking of you when this went down and wished that I had gotten your phone number so I could have called you. I went thru the storm and I am ok.
I will re-read your post because I really think you hit the nail on the head. This is exactly what is going on and I really need to let H figure it out WITHOUT any pressure from me.
Last night we were sitting in our backyard reading. I finished my book so I went in to watch a little TV. I didn't say anything, just left him out there. When he came in he said "you know I don't really have much time to just sit and relax like I just did and I was looking around at our beautiful house and yard and thinking to myself, I am so lucky" - See, he's not all bad and I see this as a definite positive sign
