I also think it is important that H feels safe to make mistakes with us. We will still care about them. Nothing changes.
I hope to give that message to my H when he begins his cycling and work on himself.
I do not expect him to break it off with the OW completely right away. I am seeing too many men behaving in this pattern.
I still think it is important that they are allowed to make mistakes with me and still be cared about.
Holly


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.