SO you got the typical.. blah blah from your H... it's tiresome isn't it! sigh... immature twits they can be! WEll... how do you believe them? It's tough. What you want is a NEW marriage. not the old one. It always seem to start when the baby comes along and H is no longer the centre of the universe. Partying gets old pretty quickly... eventually the othrs guys and gals pair off, get married and start their own families and pretty soon you notice that the partyiers are all ten or 15 years younger than you! LOL!! I digress...
I would suggest counselling... only call it "coaching" and see how he reacts. You both need new ways to learn to be together. "C" helps. If he won't go with you, go alone... to a pro marriage counsellor who can at least help you if he won't go.
It does take two to tango and I know I did my share of skipping a step or two...
