Mama, I wanted to stress that I agree with the others urging you to calm down, but I also think you need to see a lawyer. I actually think that everyone on this board needs to see a lawyer to make sure that they are protected as much as possible. You need the peace of mind. Find an attorney who specializes in family law.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)