Hi Mama, So sorry for your pain. As Jokerman said "breathe". When these things happen our minds swing into full gear and we start planning for the worst. Yes, see a lawyer but not because of this but because you should always know where you stand legally. Second, having only a brief read of your sitch I see your husband as a man who sees the mundane existence of life as hard to bear and you get the blame. In my house it's the same. Somehow we are responsible for the day to day humdrum of life. Maybe just lay low and don't thank him etc. just back off for a while. He sounds overwhelmed. If he's physically abusive keep him on a very short leash, don't tolerate it for a minute. But, I don't know this to be so. Be safe and take care.
