"mental masturbation"

I've always loved that term. I thought I was the only one who used it.

Any woman who goes after a married man is F-cked in the head to some degree. And I agree the spouse that gets caught up is F-cked in the head in the head too. I just hope it's just temporary insanity for me.

FYI the meal when he got home was a great idea. OW will do things like that in the begining, but that will wain b/c they do not love the H. Just their own selfish desires. You made that meal out of LOVE and support. The OW will make the meal out of manipulation.

He will come around.