Update: When H came home I had a little appetizer made for him. I know he is always starving when he gets home. He asked to see our bowling shoes and said he would love to go bowling with us. On the way we stopped to get him some shoes, which turned into everyone getting their own ball and bags. Had a GREAT time bowling. Everyone did really well, alot of high fives and compliments. Went out for pizza afterwards and H sat next to me in the booth.
This morning he left a note saying how much fun he had last night and that we should do that alot more often.
I am hoping he made his choice to stay with us, I think his problem may lie in breaking free from the OW (hopefully she is not a psycho but on the other hand I hope she is so that he can see what he almost got himself tangled up with )
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