No need to thank me Strongbear. Trust me this is helping me too.
I made a big selfish mistake. I think there is a certain stigma with affairs. It think they are misunderstood as only sex. I think shedding light on how they happen and what keeps them going will help the other side (LBS) have a better plan and understanding.
All I can hope is that I help a few people along the way in my healing process, and prevent others from making the same mistake I did.
