I really need reinforcement right now. I want us to salvage what is left of our marriage. We have been together for 14 years, they have been together for less than a year. He will be throwing away so much - good times and bad. My children, who absolutely adore him WILL be heartbroken - why can't he see that? I really believe love is a choice, once you choose to love someone, and it could be anyone, I believe you need to take care of that R by being open and honest. Instead of when the going gets tough, run for comfort from someone else. My H is still confused. OW is like a drug and he is addicted to her. He may wake up after a great weekend and say to himself, ok today is the day I am going to stop seeing her, then he gets to work and she works her manipulative ways and he falls her prey, again.
Hopefully, she will get tired of waiting for him to leave us and resentful of the time that he spends with me and the kids and end the R herself. THIS is what I pray for, unless my H can end it first.
