Just found the Jokerman's forum (he was a cheater). Very eye opening. While I think things are progressing; H is saying ILY and wearing his wedding ring again, I do not think we are anywhere close to having a good marriage. He still does not come straight home from work. I have to wonder where he is We had a great weekend and then monday he comes home late, didn't call just said he worked late. My a$$, OW probably demanded they spend time together since he came home to me and the kids on Saturday and went away with us. He also "worked late" yesterday. Today when I asked him what time will he be home, he stated "don't know yet" - I can you not know????

I will continue on this DB journey but it just gets so tiring. The alternative is worse so I continue on