Hi MamaBear, I just caught up on your sitch, and you are doing so GREAT! And, I'm staring down 50 this year, and I can tell you I have not reached my prime yet! It just gets better and better. Even one of my daughter's guy friends (in his 20's) said I looked hot. Now that was a surprise, but you know what, yipee. And 6 miles on the bike with the kids mama - you are doing so so great. You know the boys are looking at you too. It is your character and inner beauty that will slay your H in the end though. You just keep up the good work. I believe what Amy C said to you - any minute now, your H is going to hit that fork in the road. And are you kidding, he may have acted like a fool a few times, but who would be fool enough to leave you and your pack of wonderful kids? No way, mama. I am rooting for you. And, yes, touchy is good Take all the opportunities, and go with it. A day in the sun at the water park is so good for that relaxed bedroom feeling when you come home. You have a GREAT attitude. I am betting on your success. Just keep doing what you're doin'. Patience love and a little spunk always, mama Rock on

PositivelyListening
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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller