Her funk probably is over OM but that doesn't matter so let it run its course. Our W are very confused and aren't capable of making a long term decision like completely recommitting to the M. So what. We give them time and consideration and be the H they have always wanted. Take her to the Pocomos and give her a weekend she won't ever forget. Here is the bottom line. You are competeing with the OM. So kick his A$$. Not physically, but in the battle for your W. No, it shouldn't be a competition, but guess what, it is. That is how I handle my sitch. There are several competitors and I plan on kicking all of their a$$es. One last thought. You could become the man of all men and it may not be enough for her to choose you. People do make poor choices. Bill Clinton did become President didn't he? So what if Mrs. Kaw makes a bad choice, the next Mrs. Kaw will appreciate the masterpiece that you have become.
I don't sugar coat things because, well, I don't do it very well. Most people will rise to a challenge but sometimes they don't know there is one. We have a very similar one buddy. Lure our W away from a fantasy world that will hurt them eventually. We have to stay appealing while they figure that out for themselves. In the mean time let your competitive instincts shine. My W hurt her back recently and I have been an excellent caregiver and massage therapist (she said I helped way more than the chiropractor). Something I didn't do well in the past. We have a "date" tonight so I when I met her for lunch I "teased" her big time. I like being her "boyfriend" because it is so much more fun than being her H.
