Quote: What is 'PM'? I probably know but I'm having a mental block.
Passionate Marriage. It was recommended to me as a good book to address my intimacy issues and I'd have to say, it does present some VERY good ideas. It's main focus is on the idea that by maintaining our own "self" or differentiation as the author calls it (I call it detachment), we are able to exist in a close, emotional relationship and maintain a vibrancy/intimacy that tends to get lost when people are TOO close. His assertion that passion dies when people become too emotionally fused is pretty interesting because it's counter-intuitive to what we would think would be the case but when I look at my sitch, I see that this could very well be true.
I see this book as working VERY well with DB but it's probably better for the reconciliation stage because a LOT of is has to do with sexuality. Actually, that's what the whole book is about but I think it applies to most every aspect of marriage.