Maybe I will go back and reread it. To tell you the truth it was a bit wordy and I found it hard to comprehend at times.
I was checking out what Frank wrote on HH's thread. Really good stuff. I am that little girl, clinging to my H, waiting form him to throw me a bone. I have been doing a lot better lately though. Every day I am becoming more and more independent. Saturday took my kids to my SIL's company picnic; pony rides, face painting, caricature drawings, etc. We had a fun time. Another family outing that H wasn't a part of.
Sunday we spent the day together as a family. One thing we all did that my H really enjoyed (he is a fitness nut) is I put S4 in the trailer attached to my bike, D10 put on her rollerblades, H put on his and D9 rode her bike and we went for a really long ride. Lots of fresh air and exercise.
I really do see so much improvement and can't discard the babysteps in our R. Yes, I am dissappointed in the lack of affection (all I get is the obligatory goodnight hug at the end of the day). I do think that the more fun we have together that eventually H will get that loving feeling back, I hope so anyway.
