Quote: Problem is, how do I get H to see this? I think he is perfectly fine being good friends and that is it.
I think I know the answer to this, but have you actually asked him if this is the case? I think you have, and he said yes but if not...
Anyway, I thought that too, and to a certain extent I still do but when I asked W, she said she didn't want things to be this way.
I think there are MANY reasons why it may take them time to get back to "us" on a intimate level but one of those reasons MAY be us making it a condition of the relationship at some point. Not necessarily today or next week, but sometime I think it's probably going to be up to US to get this thing going somehow.
On a related note, I know you read PM awhile back and said you didn't really like it or get much from it. I'm curious because I think a LOT of what is in the book is directly applicable to us and our sitches right now. Our inability to be comfortable with our OWN desire and that we deserve pleasure or intimacy is holding us back and that book talks a LOT about those things. I am getting a lot from it. Mind you, I am only about 1/2 way through it so maybe there are things that come later that will turn me off to it's message.
