I now know all the things I did wrong and have fixed those problems and know how to fix others. Problem is, how do I get H to see this? I think he is perfectly fine being good friends and that is it. When he is home we do everything together; from yard work, cleaning up the house, watching TV/movies, hanging out in the backyard, bikeriding/rollerblading with kids, the list goes on and on. Like I said before if anyone saw us they would think we were happy, the perfect couple. Sadly, we are not. I like GH, have not been intimate with my H since last November. This hurts and I don't know how to fix it.