Thanks SS, I have seen Make Up Don't Break Up recommended several diffeerent places. I will definitely go and get it as I am a firm believer of knowledge.
Today:
Called H around 12:30 p.m. to ask what time he was coming home, I needed money to go to Walmart. He apologized that he took it all and said he would be home at 3:30.
At 6:00 he called and apologized for calling so late, worked late and fell asleep in his car, now stuck in traffic. Whatever!!!!!
I no longer let his lies or preconceived lies affect me. When he is not home he can do whatever he wants. I am not is mother.
He was extremely nice to me when he got home. A good friend of mine called around 9:30 (same person I went and got a tatoo with on my birthday) = he silently went up to bed. I did not run after him, I continued to talk to my friend (who by the way, logged onto this website to check out my sitch) - she was saddened to see how many people were here and was inspired by our resolve to save our marriages. She said, personally, she could not do what I have done. That's okay. I personally feel good about my descision. She said when this is all done and over with I should write a book. I declined, but I think the more articulate people here (GH, RB, Always, PL, SS, & Frank, not to mention otheres) should collaberate and possibly do this. Anyway, to not be so self centered and selfish is a good place to be right now.
