Quote: I know it must be really tough sometimes to see what H is doing
Yes, it is extremely tough! When he came home it took all the self control I had to not go for the jugular.
Quote: Imagine when he comes home, hears all the kids talking about the fun you had, and H is missing it. Again.
Oh and this did happen. They bombarded him the minute he walked thru the door. All three talking at once, showing him their new stuffed animals and the great picture we took of all of us. He layed on the couch with them climbing all over him and I heard him say "this feels so good"
Quote: At some point, your H is not going to want to miss all of this anymore. The A will eventually fizzle.
This is what I am hoping for. This is what motivates me to keep my mouth shut and not question him about who is was really with, etc. It was my choice to stay in this marriage even though I know he is involved in an A. No one forced me to, therefore, I have to deal with it.
When H went to bed last night I was tucking our S4 in bed, he said goodnight and then went in our room. A few minutes later he came back out and walked up to me and said "come here", gave me a big hug and said "this feels so good, I could fall asleep right here" He also stated that he is going to try to get home early so he can go with us a a local festival that me and the kids are going to. So, it appears that he may be on the fence tetering back and forth. I don't want to give him any reason to lean the other way.
