Quote: Mama, I am so grateful to be reading your posts these days. You sound SO good and I am so proud of you. You are a shining example of what happens when one TRULY decides to detach and understand that while we can still CARE what they say and do, we DON'T have to be ruled by it.
Is that what I am doing? Detaching? I guess in a way I am. I will not let his actions, no matter how angry they make me, rule my life. We are both grown ups. As Average Joe stated in his thread; we don't NEED our spouses, sure we want them but if we don't have them we will still be ok on our own.
Now to keep saying this over and over in my head so I don't do or say anything I will live to regret when and if he does come home tonight!!
