Mama, I echo a14's comments and questions. I have been thinking this too about your sitch. I know in mine, most of my 99% sure he's gone is the fact that W is, as a14 said, nice to me again and seems pretty much rid of that constant stress and angst that she carried for the entire time the affair was going on. Now, either she's become a MUCH better liar and person able to live with this, or she's not living with it anymore. If she is in contact with him, I don't think it's to continue seeing him but rather because she doesn't know how to get rid of him...or is that me, lol.
Anyway, please, why do you think he's still seeing her outside the fact that he has opportunity and unanswered for time (or ANSWERED for time that you consider lies)?
