Ok H supposedly worked late tonight, I suspect he was with OW. That being said he should have been home by 6:30 p.m.
He called at 7:14 and said he had a really bad day and would be home in a few minutes.
I know I shouldn't have, but at 8:00 I called him to see where he was (he works 1/2 hour away), he didn't answer.
H called back a few mintues later, said he stopped to get lotto tickets and would be home soon. Got home by 8:15.
Our son4 ran to him right away, H picked him up and said "this is what it is all about" - WTF? If that is how you feel, why don't you come straight home from work to be with our kids?
I was so mad!!!!! Practicing a speech in my head. But guess what, 180 for Mama, I thought about it and decided now would not be a good time for A TALK.
I am seriously considering changing my name to Ms. Grin and Bear it.