Been catching up on the most active threads since I'm back from vacation. There definately seems to be a common thread running thru them lately (Does anyone else see it?). Most (Me included) seem to be having trouble accepting our S refound commitments to M and worry that their S is only acting "As-If" things are fine. This is truly an ironic reversal of roles!! Why are we having such a difficult time accepting our S 180?!!