Sorry if I gave you the impression that you sailed through this , Kaw. I know it hasn’t been easy.
But there are so many posters around here that just don’t get it. Their fear, frustration, and sense of injustice prevents them from focussing on what has to be done. You became solution oriented before you even heard of DB, and the timeframe in which you turned things around is mind boggling.
I’ve been married for the same length of time as you (19th anniversery in Aug), and though I’m doing very well, in some respects, you’re way ahead of me.
Despite having your guts torn out and fed to you by your W, you stuck to the programme. That’s what I meant by being emotionally stable.
As to your question… what do you do now? You already know the answer to that, my friend. You keep doing what you’ve been doing.
The golden rule of DBing is… If it works, do it. If it doesn’t work, stop doing it.
It’s as simple as that. Note, simple and easy aren’t the same thing.
