Well step one is to calm down so I'll work on that. Speaking of work, gotta go do my commnity activist work--3 meetings today--that will probably help too. Hopefully I can help build affordable houses, improve transportation, education and the incredibly dirty air in this state in which I now live, and help young adults get their GEDs even if I can't straighten out my marriage. My house is not as neat as it used to be. My husband does not get as many gourmet meals as he used to, but too bad! Thanks for the kind words. I need to be patient with my H but not buy into his crap either!
