I've been there with the depression thing. Since my major depression, I've had some tremmors. It scared the heck out of me. I've been keeping tabs on my feelings ever since, and jumped back on the meds a coupla times in order to preempt another breakdown.
Be careful.
Sounds like your H may be going through something similar. Don't jump to conclusions about OW.
I think you should just continue to do what you started. Show support, take care of yourself, and ride it out.
